"I can love you and be involved with ten other girls" love or not?

I got into a heated argument with a friend the other day. This question came up in the course of argument and she told me that its okay for a guy to do that, a playboy can never be changed.
    That is her reality,that's her perspective,that's her idea about this topic. Now I am going to face this from two different perspectives;
1. How you know he genuinely likes you.
2. How you know he is not ready to be committed in the relationship(once a player always a player,deal with it!)
     If a guy wants to be with a girl, he will make it happen no matter what,so trust me when I say that if a guy is treating you like he doesn't give a shit,he genuinely doesn't give a shit. No exceptions!😼
     The funny thing about this is that in relationships nowadays, if you are involved with a playboy, he will feed you with what you want to hear as a girl. He probably must have studied her before approaching her.
    Now,how do you know he genuinely likes you? Thank God for my researchs and observations on guys, these little actions means a whole lot. They say action speaks louder than words right? In a romantic relationship, the man,guy or boy who is genuinely falling in love with you wants to go from being just a friend,to a boyfriend and from a boyfriend to husband.
1. HE INCLUDES YOU IN HIS FUTURE:This is the most important action a guy will do and you'll know that he is ready to commit in the relationship. Any guy that isn't ready for a long run with you is just satisfying his dick. Yeah! I just said that. If a guy loves you and hasn't started talking about seeing his future with you then run!
2. HE WANTS TO DO THINGS FOR YOU AND WITH YOU: When I say "do things for you and with you" I mean going extra miles to please you. Sorry for bringing this up but permit me to use the character of Gu Jun Pyo in the series Boys Before Flowers, that's a character of a guy that wanted to do things with her and for her. Going to his football games, going for her dance recital,going to church because she wants to go,these things show that you are ready to stay in the relationship.
3.ITS NOT ALWAYS SEXUAL BETWEEN YOU GUYS: This is really hard, most girls just need someone that will cuddle with her,tell her that she looks cute even when she is wearing a big hoody. The guy has the mindset that why explore everything now when you are already mine, I will explore everything when I have said my vows. Its not easy after all we are teenagers with our desires, and rumour can go around that you are scared to be involved with your boyfriend. Let them talk, if you know that its not always sexual when you are with your boyfriend, he shows interest in your life, you talk about silly then its a sign that he is ready to be in the game for a longtime.
4.HE CONSIDERS THINGS INVOLVING YOU: Not everyone is the same, the girl might be an introvert and the guy might be an extrovert, you have to know how to share your time. The guy might start to change because of you and the girl might also want to be reserved when it comes to you. If he shows consideration and like I said goes extra miles to make you happy...the that's a good sign.
     
     Now, signs to know that he isn't ready to commit.
1. TRAIL OF SHORT LIVED RELATIONSHIP: According to Annie Ashdown,if you get the feeling that a person you're dating has left behind them a trail of flings and short lived relationships,consider that a potential red flag. I'm not a feminist, women are also likely to go from one short termed relationship to the next.
2.ISNT OVER AN EX: I'm not an expert in dating but you can tell when someone has moved on from his ex. A major turn off for me is when I'm talking about our relationship with my guy and then you slide in a story of your ex or make a comparism. Like WTF! If the person you are involved in is still scared and still reeling from a bad relationship, it is also a red flag that this one won't be healthy as well. Break ups are hard,yes but we should learn to move on. Find greener pastures,not every thing that glitters is gold and not everything that's gold glitters take a leap.
3.DOESN'T RESPONDS TO CALLS OR TEXTS: Communication is very essential in every relationship. When you notice that whoever you are involved with rarely or doesn't reply your texts and calls,its a sign that he is seeing someone behind your back. If you believe that your guy likes you, and doesn't show or makes effort with you, then he isn't ready to commit.
    There is a story of a girl,who loved her guy so much, didn't believe in his past and felt that a Playboy can be changed. He fed her with lies that he loved her but he didn't want to date her. Of course they got intimate,but he never called or texted her...he gave her excuses that he has a bad phone but he was best friends with the girls brother...funny right? Y'all may think that he was actually honest, maybe he was,but why couldn't he collects his best friends phone and talk to her ? When she finally found out that the guy has been playing with her emotions and lying to her, she broke all ties with him. Let me burst your brain,the guy was online with his phone looking for another prey. That's is a playboy.
4.Doesn't make effort to see you on a regular: A guy that is ready to be committed you,craves to see you at all times. I for one am not really into close distance type,but I get reminded everyday that I am cared for. If you as a girl puts more effort in seeing the guy without him reciprocating then its a one sided thing. I really hate it when I see a girl striving hard in a relationship and will get treated like a pest,after all, Adam, the first man, went after Eve not the other way around.
        Back to my topic of discussion, you can't love one girl and be fuckibg involved with ten others, Are you sick??? Yeah you are a guy you got your desires that need to be attended to,if you know that you can't be commited to one girl,don't even bother trying it. Whenever you are ready for a real relationship, go for it.

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