Letting go

It's time to let them go. It's time to say goodbye. It's time to forget how you feel and think of what you deserve.
A toxic relationship is a relationship where you allow yourself get hurt, manipulated and insulted. It is a relationship where you allow yourself get dragged into series of dramas but instead of you to leave? You keep coming back to get hurt. You are hoping the person can change or better still you hope to change the person. That is called toxic hope and it's just a waste of time. Sometimes, you have to make decisions that will hurt your heart but will calm your soul. You can't make yourself a sacrificial lamb trying to save a relationship or a friendship. You can't kill yourself for a relationship or a friendship, you can't be a martyr just for a friendship or a relationship.That is called relational suicide. Let them go while you still can.
Have you ever been in a relationship with anybody and the absence of that person brings you peace? That is a sign that you don't need them and it's time to let them go. Immediately you start thinking of a reason to stay in a relationship or a friendship, it is time to let them go. When you cross check your friends or anybody you have a relationship with and you notice that you are not benefiting positively from them, it is time to let go.
No reason to stay is a good reason to go.
It will not be easy at all but I assure you, if you have gone through all the hurt, all the insult, all the embarrassment and manipulation then surely, you can overcome the healing process of letting go. If you really want closure you just have to shut the door and open a new door. Letting them go is the only way you can be reborn!
Yours sincerely,
Pecky💕