The thought is perfect but the world is not

Your future starts with a thought and you may have everything planned out perfectly like who you would marry, what you would become in the future,how many children you would want etc but when you reach that bridge, you'll find out that the bridge has more loop holes than anything you have every seen. This topic was inspired by a friend and I'll be hella selfish if I don't give him the credit.
Albert Camus says "You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.”put more simply:Don’t try.
Its really funny how you know what you want, you have planned everything you have ever dreamed about, you have envisioned your destiny and on the way to making it a reality,the world throws a wreaking ball at you that will put you off balance completely. There are some things that will happen to you and the next question you'll ask yourself is "why me?" The only reply I can give you is just that the world is like a game of ludo. No matter how good you are,or how skillfully you shake the dice cup, the outcome decides your movement and the steps you take. If you are amongst the lucky few the world will be served to you on a silver platter but if you fall amongst the less lucky ones then you have to struggle,hustle,cry and let your pain be your motivation.
"Why did he/she cheat on me? Wasn't I good enough?" Love isn't exempted from what I have said earlier. As a matter of fact, love is the case study I am going to be using.
When you love someone or when you have fallen in love with someone, you already begin to dream of the future you will have with that person. You begin to see your little babies running down the hall of the house, you immediately start to plan their next birthday and valentine. YOUR THOUGHT ON YOUR FUTURE IS PERFECT! but before all these things become a reality, the bubble will burst and you will get the news that he/she isn't interested or he/she cheated on you. " Where did I go wrong?", "did I make a mistake by falling in love?"
Similarily, when you come to school, you have made up your mind to come out with a first class. A PERFECT THOUGHT, but what do you get? Your lecturers are out to get you.
The world like I mentioned earlier is like a wreaking ball, bringing havoc to the dreams of people. It is an unfair circle where does at center enjoy everything and those at the circumference just watch and hustle to get to the center. Your mindset should be that no matter what the world throws at you, you will catch and throw it back at the world. Never be discouraged! Find love again.